Just Say Thank You

Hi Reader,

Welcome to Your Dose of Mana — a quick, weekly note with:​
1 real story
1 leadership insight
1 practical takeaway
1 dose of art

If your biggest business challenges are actually people challenges, you’re in the right place.

1 Real Story

Two weeks ago, I wrote about something I think a lot of people quietly wonder:

Does any of this actually matter?

Not in an existential, lie-on-the-floor-and-stare-at-the-ceiling kind of way.

Just the quieter question many of us ask about our work:

Is anyone reading this?
Is this helping anyone?
Am I making an impact I can’t see?

I shared the story of being at a wedding and discovering that someone had been reading my newsletters for quite some time.

I had no idea.

That conversation reminded me that we often don’t know the impact we’re having until someone tells us.

Then my inbox lit up.

Email after email after email after email and so on.

Well, you get the picture
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Messages from people sharing specific reasons why they liked my Dose. Notes telling me not to stop. Sharing stories that stayed with them. Ways something I wrote helped them think differently. Or the most touching, a note from a cherished friend (I refuse to say the O word) expressing what they feel makes me special to them.

It all was incredibly kind and a bit overwhelming.

And if I’m being honest?

I immediately felt uncomfortable.

Not because I wasn’t grateful.

But because I worried people thought that piece was fishing for compliments.

That SO wasn’t the point.

Then I realized something slightly annoying:

Uh, hello. I wasn’t taking my own advice.

1 Leadership Insight​
I tell people all the time:

When someone gives you a compliment, say thank you.

Don’t deflect.
Don’t minimize.
Don’t explain why it wasn’t a big deal.
Don’t make it awkward.

Just say: Thank you.

And yet there I was squirming with the kindness.

Why?

Because many of us are more comfortable striving than receiving.

We know how to work harder.
Push more.
Improve more.

Receiving affirmation requires stillness.

And sometimes stillness forces us to acknowledge that maybe what we’re doing matters more than we realized.

1 Practical Takeaway

If someone tells you your work mattered:

Say thank you.

That’s it.

No disclaimer.
No self-deprecation.
No emotional cartwheels.

Just thank them.

And if someone’s work has helped you recently?

Tell them.

Your email, text, or comment may be the proof they didn’t know they needed.

Sometimes impact is invisible until someone names it.

And sometimes the lesson is learning how to simply receive it.

So I’ll say it again because it bears repeating. Thank you.

1 Dose of Art

A little whimsy. A little joy. A little doodle.

Doodle by Gary Schechner, 5/4/2026

Even though this is a “mass email” I mean it when I say—let me know what you are up to. Reply, book a Zoom, pick up the phone. I’d love to catch up.

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Thanks for letting me show up in your inbox.
See you next week with another Dose.

More joy. Less friction. Always.
—Amy